I have a saikopath at my workplace. He is so saiko that when I went home last year due to stress, he made a story that I was getting engaged. He told all my students that I am already engaged.

So penyebok kan, I know.

Not all that, he has been making comments too. And I am not comfortable at all with what he said. I have started to think that this is some sort of sexual abuse at workplace.

I thought I was the only victim. I was not. It seems that another colleague of mine has suffered even worse. And so did many students.

With me, he only gave me verbal comments. Telling me that I look nice and I look better in tudung bawal rather than selendang. This could be compliments, but I do get uncomfortable. Most of the times he would tell me how he misses me after a long break or oftentimes, after I came back from the weekend break. Sometimes, he would say ‘I love you’ in front of my students. Making faces at him does not work. Too blind to see my gestures I guess.

He has now started to get physical with my colleague. He would touch different part of her body and purposely touched her hand when she gave him something. he told her that when she put on some lipstick, her lips look pretty and then made kissing gestures to her. She too, has been receiving a lot of ‘I love you’ from him.

My colleague has personally warned him, but all he said was ‘Kau ni tak sporting baaa.’ He even reminded my colleague not to report this to anyone.

Both of us could not stand his unprofessional attitude. If we do not report this, he could get even worse than what he already did. If we did, and if he knew that it was us who reported about him, He might use his ilmu gelap to get back to us. Plus, he is a local here. The villagers might believe him more than us and he might made it look like we have been making stories.

But, I guess we are not afraid of him. Since we have decided to tell our GB about this, and see how it goes from there.